Sunday, November 9, 2008

Swapno Niye

Ami ekti welfare organisation er songe jukto..jar naam " SWAPNO NIYE"..ami okhankar ekjon member....organisation ti down trodden children female child der niye kaaj kore ....SWAPNO NIYE er main uddyeshyo holo oi choto choto bachhagulo jader baba-ma nei ba baba-ma khub gorib tader kichu kichu swapno k shafol kora...
samayer abhabe ebong kajer chap e monthly ekta subscription chara ami khub beshi samay hoyto oder dite parina tobe chesta kori jatota sambhab oder jonyo kichu financial help korte...

Robibar sakale gelam okhane...hathat Eva di mane okhankar Secretary amake ekti bachhar naame nalish korlo..bachhati ekti aporadh koreche..seti holo o churi koreche... meyetir ma poricharikar kaaj kore ebong tar baba chor...baba r songo peye pache bachhati kharap hoye jai tai tar ma amader HOME e diye gache..tachara tader ekti meye k manush korar samartho nei
...jai hok meyeti k to anek bokaboki kora hoyeche..asole or theke to bakirao churi kora shikte pare mane poribeshta kharap hoye jete pare...ekta chance oke deoa hoyeche..abar jadi emon kichu kore tahole hoyto amra ar okhane rakhbo na..oke bari pathiye deno...

Bachhatir songe ami nije katha bollam..oke bojhalam j o ja koreche seta bhul..ami jokhon or songe katha bolchilam..or chokta chol chol korchilo...dekhe amaro khub koshto holo...
Bari fire eshe bhablam....amra hoyto chesta kori kauke bhalo korar ba bhalo kichu shekhanor..kintu satti ki pari..satti ki poribesh manush k change korte pare...naki manusher gean tai sob...bhabte kharap lage..chorer chele meye keno chor e habe..tara bhalo hote pare na.???

Monday, September 29, 2008

Shanti chai na shasti chai????

hathat ekdin court e kaj korchi... didi r ph elo...bollo or ek bondhu tokkhuni amar songe dekha korte chai..ekta legal byapar e....
dekha kora amar pokhhe ekdom e osombham chilo karon ektu porei ekta consultation e jete habe ekjon senior advocate er barite..jai hok shei muhurte ami ph ei didi r bondhur sathe katha sarlam..bhujlam or husband ebong in-laws der sathe or ekta problem cholche shei niye amar songe katha bolte chai..porer din dekha korlam...
tar aage bole rakhi meyeti ekti college er lectureer ebong tar engineer husband holen Salt Lake Sector V er ekti naam kora company te chakri kore per year tar income holo 7 lakhs...takar katha ta bollam karon husband-wife er modhye jhamelata shuru hoy taka-poisa niyei...
biyeta kintu ekdom arranged marriage...conventional way tei du pokhher baba-ma dekhe shune decide koreche...bou jehetu chakri kore tai prothom thekei shoshur shashurir order holo sonshare thakte gele TAKA contribute korte habe...amar mone hoy eta kauke bolte hoyna manush nije thekei ei contribution ta kore..jai hok tader mone holo jadi tader bou kono contribution na kore...
meyetir shashur barite tara charjon e thake..aste aste se ter pelo j ja kichui khorcha hochhe sab tai divided by 4 hochhhe...se jai hok ebar shuru holo kaloho...du-din antor e tar husband kono ekta escuse dekhiye tar kache taka chaiche...ar seta khub boro anker...ar dite parlei take bibhinno bhabe sabai apoman korche...dhire dhire byapar ta emon ek jaigai pouche jai j meyeti ekdin jante pare j tar husband tar bank er locker cease kore niyeche....
ebong tar sathe mental torture shuru hoyeche....eto kichur majheo kintu meyeti alada thakar katha bhabeni..kintu abosheshe ekdin holo ki meyeti ar parlo protibad korlo..ebong tar phale sabai mile take ghore dhukiye mukh chepe dhorlo dorja bondho kore dilo..se kono rokome ekta janale diye tader ek protibeshi k bollo or nijer baba- ma ke khobor dite....
at present meyeti shashur bari chere tar nijer baba-ma er kache ache..ebong akhon se bhache mutually divorce korbe na tar in-laws der against e Section 498A of IPC file korbe...
ekane ekta katha boli...case file korle roj giye hajira dite habe
...karon court case kotodin cholbe jane na keu...tar upore jokhon evidence cholbe tokhon meyeti k cross-examination er samay anek kothin prosner sommukhin hote habe ebong ek ghar loker majhe publicly tar barir katha prokash pabe...ar mutual divorce korle esob theke mukti kono jhamelai nei....amar prosno tomader kache meyetir akhon ki kora uchit????sab kichu bhule giye mutually separate hoye ekta notun jibon shuru kora na...oder k shasti deoa???
Achha kota degree thaklei ki amra nijeder cultured ba shikhhito bole dabi korte pari??? ekjon qualified lok j nije eto taka rojgar kore se ki kore taka r jonyo tar wife k torture kore???

Monday, September 22, 2008

chikitsha bibhrat

Blog e eta amar prothom lekha....kdin dhore sarir ta bejai kharap court theke chuti niyechi...ei panke bhablam kichu lekha likhi kori.. jai hok kdin dhorei ekta respiratory problem hochhilo..prothome oto patta diyini..kintu jokhon out of control holo gelam amader house physician er kache dekhe bollo pressure low jai hok asudh dilo..dudin dhore khelam..kichui labh holo na..boron robobar din eto barabari holo j saharer ekti naam kora hospital ee emergency te giye dekhate holo..sekhane amake oxygen mask poralo...relief to kichu holoi na..aro matha ta ghure gelo...ulte boll pressure to ekdom normal...robobar din hospital ekdom e phanka...dujon junior doctor chilo..dekhe to doctor bole bhakti holo na..tara bollo amar house physicial j asudh gulo deiyeche segulo jeno ami ekdom e na khai...shune to ami abak holam...ulte amake ekta ghumer asudh likhe dilo..birokto holeo prokash korar upai nei...jai hok barir lokjon to prochondo bibhrante porlo ami baro fire elam...itimodhye Kunal mane amar husband oder house physician k ph korlo tar kache gelam sandhebela..tar por to arek kando..seto amake dekhe bollo akhuni hospital e admit korte habe...teen jon doctor teen rokomer katha bollo...tokhon baje raat 9ta tarpor gelam saherer arekti naam kora hospital er emergency ward e okhane te grand welcome...takar byaparta ache to..jai hok songe songe ecg, sugar test etc. korlo..kichui bhujte parlo na...ulte amake jiggesha baad jorche ..aare ami jadi otoi bhujtam tahole doctor er kache leno jabo....jai hok amake nebuliser deoa holo..kichukhon por bhujlam seta thik moto laganoi hoyni...jaihok ami nijei seta lagalam...tar por ekjon sister eshe ki ekta asudh khete dilo jiggesh korlam ki..seto mone holo banglai bojhe na..ami hindi te bollam kichui bolte parlo na...jai hok bari fire elam raate....tar por theke ekdin keteche..tar por amar ei blog lekha..akhon mone hochhe nijer chikitsha nijekei korte habe...